‘Conscious unbossing’ explained: Why some workers are saying no to promotions
Getting a promotion is often seen as the natural next step in a person's career. After all, a bigger title and a higher salary sound like the ultimate reward for all the hard work you've put in.
However, a growing trend has seen some employees choose not to climb the corporate ladder and stay in their current positions. Dubbed "conscious unbossing," the practice involves deliberately turning down promotions or leadership roles in favor of staying in positions with fewer responsibilities.
But why has the idea of becoming the boss stopped being the dream? PhilSTAR L!fe spoke with experts to find out what’s driving some employees to turn down promotions, and whether choosing not to move up the career ladder is necessarily a bad thing.
Choosing to stay put
Jonane Quiambao, a human resources business partner, said that there are many reasons why some workers are not so keen on advancing their careers.
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"Work-life balance is a major factor. Promotions often come with more responsibilities, longer hours, more meetings, greater accountability, and sometimes the expectation to be available beyond regular working hours. Some employees may decide that the additional responsibility isn’t worth the impact on their personal life," she said.
Jeremiah Yalung Rafanan, an HR manager, also pointed to the financial value of a promotion as something employees may consider before accepting one.
"An increase in salary may look attractive on paper, but employees may consider how much of that increase they will actually take home after taxes and other deductions," he said. "If the additional income is relatively small compared with the additional responsibilities, some employees may not see the promotion as worthwhile."
The increased workload can also play a major role, especially when employees feel the added responsibilities don't match the compensation.
According to Quiambao, one of the biggest changes that come with moving into a managerial or leadership position is accountability.
"As an individual contributor, you’re primarily responsible for your own output. As a manager, you’re also responsible for leading, developing, supporting, and managing the performance of other people," she explained.
As a manager, you now have to deal with difficult conversations, conflict resolution, performance issues, employee concerns, hiring decisions, stakeholder management, and sometimes unpopular decisions.
"Management requires communication, delegation, coaching, decision-making, emotional intelligence, and accountability," Quiambao said. "You may also have less flexibility and more meetings because your decisions and availability can affect an entire team."
"Being good at your job doesn’t necessarily mean you want to become a manager. Some employees prefer to remain specialists or individual contributors and continue developing their expertise," she added.
Rafanan echoed this, noting that moving into management requires employees to develop an entirely different set of skills.
"The biggest change is often the shift from being responsible primarily for your own performance to being responsible for the performance and development of other people," he said.
"Some employees may also feel they are not yet equipped to manage people or take on leadership responsibilities. This can happen when companies promote employees based on their technical performance but do not provide enough leadership training, coaching, or preparation for managing teams."
Ups and downs of saying no to a promotion
For Quiambao, saying no to a promotion shouldn't automatically be interpreted as a lack of ambition.
"Employees should be able to make that decision without automatically being labeled as unambitious. A promotion should be an opportunity, not an obligation," she stressed.
"If someone values their current role, flexibility, manageable workload, and personal time, staying where they are can be a perfectly valid career decision. They can still grow by developing their expertise without taking on responsibilities they don’t want," she added.
Rafanan agreed, saying employees should be able to turn down a promotion if it doesn't align with their goals and priorities.
"Career growth does not always have to mean moving into management," he said. "Some employees may prefer to deepen their expertise, become specialists, take on challenging projects, or simply maintain a role that allows them to have a healthier balance between work and personal life."
For him, staying in a current position lets employees remain productive and satisfied instead of taking on a role they are not prepared or willing to handle.
"The benefit is that employees can remain in a position where they are productive, engaged, and satisfied instead of accepting a promotion they are not prepared or willing to take," he explained.
However, the drawback to this is that opportunities may not always come back at the same time or in the same form.
"Repeatedly declining promotions could also limit exposure to leadership opportunities," Quiambao said.
Turning down a promotion can mean missing out on higher income, greater decision-making authority, and future career opportunities.
"They may miss opportunities for higher income, greater decision-making authority, career advancement, or future leadership opportunities," Rafanan said.
"In some organizations, repeatedly declining promotions could also affect how management views an employee’s long-term career aspirations," he added.
What employers can do
Since taking on leadership roles is no longer everyone's goal, this could pose a problem for companies, as they may struggle to fill managerial positions or build a strong pipeline of future leaders. So what can employers do to keep moving forward?
Quiambao highlighted that companies should first understand the reason instead of assuming the employee lacks ambition.
"Repeatedly declining promotions can actually be valuable feedback. It may show that employees are happy in their current roles, but it can also reveal that the company’s definition of career growth is too focused on promotions and people management," she said.
Rafanan suggested that employers start by understanding what career growth actually means to the employee.
"Instead of immediately asking, 'Why doesn’t this employee want to grow?' employers should ask, 'What does growth mean to this employee?'" he said.
"Companies should have an open conversation with the employee to understand whether the reason is compensation, workload, lack of confidence, insufficient training, work-life balance, management concerns, or simply a different career preference," he emphasized.
One thing that an organization can do is to create alternative career paths, such as specialist, technical, project-based, or subject-matter-expert tracks, which can allow employees to grow in skills, compensation, scope, and impact without necessarily managing people.
"Companies should also look at what their promotions actually involve. If employees consistently decline because the role means significantly more workload, stress, or after-hours availability without enough compensation, support, or autonomy, that’s something the organization should examine," she said.
"Sometimes the issue isn’t that employees don’t want to grow. They simply don’t want the version of growth that the company is offering," she added.
Rafanan similarly urged companies to examine whether their leadership roles are actually attractive to employees.
"If employees consistently see management as excessive workload, stress, and responsibility without sufficient support or compensation, companies should examine the role itself rather than simply blaming employees for not wanting it," he said.
Is moving up right for you?
For those unsure whether to say yes to the offer, Rafanan advised that you should consider whether you genuinely want to lead people or feel pressured to accept because the opportunity has been presented to you.
If you're interested in the role but feel unprepared, you don't necessarily have to turn it down right away.
"Ask the company what training, mentoring, resources, and transition support they can provide," he said.
Quiambao meanwhile underscored that you should not make the decision based on the title alone.
"Look beyond the salary and understand the workload, working hours, responsibilities, decision-making authority, team size, expectations, manager, and development opportunities," she said.
It's also important to ask: “If the salary increase were removed from the equation, would I still want this job?”
"If yes, the role itself may be aligned with where you want your career to go. If the only attractive parts are the title or salary, take a closer look at what you’re actually signing up for," Quiambao said.
You should also not be afraid to negotiate by asking about compensation, flexibility, support, training, transition periods, or alternative ways to grow without immediately taking on people-management responsibilities.
"Ultimately, career growth should be intentional. The goal isn’t to keep climbing simply because there is another step above you. The goal is to build a career that fits the kind of professional and personal life you actually want," Quiambao underscored.
Rafanan similarly emphasized that there is no single definition of career growth.
"For me, career growth should not be measured only by how high someone climbs the organizational ladder. Sometimes growth means taking on more responsibility, and sometimes it means becoming better at what you already do while maintaining a life outside of work," he said.
"The right career decision is the one that aligns with the employee’s goals, capabilities, priorities, and current stage in life," he added.
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