Don't like Scorpios? Here's why they're one of the zodiac's most 'hated' signs

Easy to 'hate,' but hard not to love

Per Santiago, Scorpio is traditionally ruled by Mars, which is the planet of courage, drive, and fierce loyalty.

"These traits are evident in notable figures like pole vaulter EJ Obiena, who set records through relentless discipline, and historical figures like Generals Antonio Luna and Gregorio del Pilar, who demonstrated fierce valor and unwavering allegiance during the Philippine-American War,” he told L!fe.

In everyday life, he added, this Martian energy translates into someone who will fiercely defend their inner circle. “Scorpios make steadfast, protective, and deeply dependable friends,” he said.

According to Thoth, people usually end up loving the emotional depth of a Scorpio. "When a Scorpio exhibits evolved qualities, it’s so easy to become intensely attracted to the mystery they bring. They don’t show all their cards on the table, and people love being kept on edge. Scorpios are masters of mystery, and who doesn’t love a good mystery challenge?"

"An evolved Scorpio is usually very loyal—they'll even take a bullet for you—emotionally deep as the ocean, and spiritually in tune with the subtle energies of the Universe," he added.

But of course, winning their love and trust is far from easy. "It definitely doesn't happen overnight," stressed Santiago. "Because Scorpios guard their vulnerability carefully, genuine bonds require time, consistent loyalty, and emotional patience to take root."

Signs that bring out the best—and worst—in Scorpios

Scorpio's natural allies, per Santiago, include fellow water signs Cancer and Pisces. "All three prioritize deep emotional connection and speak the same intuitive language," he said.

They also vibe with earth signs—Capricorn, Virgo, and to an extent, its opposite sign Taurus—who "provide the grounding, structure, and pragmatic stability that water signs often crave."

Thoth particularly noticed his Capricorn friends getting along exceptionally well with Scorpios. "While they don’t share the same planetary rulership, these two signs have more in common than people might think," he explained. "Both are incredibly determined, strategic, and intentional about what they want. They’re not the type to beat around the bush or wander aimlessly trying to figure things out. More often than not, they already know what they want before they make their move.
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Meanwhile, Scorpios tend to clash with air signs: Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius, as their "detached, intellectual approach can feel dismissive of Scorpios' emotional intensity," said Santiago. The same goes for dynamic fire signs (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius), which can spark power struggles. "Leo in particular forms a square aspect to Scorpio, where competing desires for control and pride frequently create friction," he pointed out.

Santiago, however, reminded everyone of the importance of distinguishing signs from individuals. "The 12 zodiac signs represent twelve distinct archetypes of human experience rather than literal personalities. Calling Scorpio an 'unlikable' sign does not mean people born under it are inherently disliked; rather, the sign embodies specific archetypal traits that challenge people," he emphasized. 

Gabriel Thoth is an astrologer, certified hypnotherapist, intuitive specialist, and tarot consultant. Book a session with him through this link.

Resti Santiago is a respected Filipino Astrologer with more than 20 years of professional practice. Ready to level up your astro-knowledge? Be a Dalubtala—dalubhasa sa tala. Dive into the full Saligang Tala Syllabus to see everything they'll cover, then lock in your spot before registration closes. Secure your spot here.